In my last blog (“What is a “typical” day?”), I
talked about the struggles trying to get one young man—Maxwell Mbera--out into the
mission field. He is going to the Mozambique
Mission, right next door to Malawi, but, because Portuguese is the language of his
mission field, he must start off spending six weeks in the Church’s Brazilian MTC
(“mission training center”), learning the language. Late last night we learned his entry to the Brazilian
MTC has now been pushed back to April 29th because the delay in getting a visa from the Brazilian Embassy. He will
be disappointed when he gets the news.
Monday, March 16, 2015
What is a "typical" day?--George's Post
A week ago
Seth, our eldest son, asked if we had a “typical” day, giving expression to a
question many of you may have had when reading our seemingly random, unconnected
posts. The question naturally leads to
other somewhat similar questions. How
much routine do we have? Do we do the
same things every day and at the same times? Is there an overall pattern to our week? How often is our week thrown off kilter by
unexpected requests or surprises? Do we
find ourselves occasionally bored? What
can we do to break up the routine we do have?
Are we required to keep to the same demanding schedule the young elders
and sisters are asked to follow?
I doubt I can discipline myself enough to answer all of these questions, but let me take a stab and try to give you
a sense for our daily and weekly activities.
First of all, senior couples have much more flexibility than the younger
full-time missionaries. This applies
both as to what we do and when we do it. Our days are not as regimented as theirs. We are not required to leave our apartments when they do, to be back in the evening by their deadlines, or to adhere to the same study schedule. Most missionaries don't have cars or trucks, so a fair portion of their free time is consuming getting from place to place. Life is much easier for us, having access to a truck to get around.
From week to week, we certainly
have some routine, but rarely do the days go as planned. Something invariably pops up, often quite out of the blue, throwing off the schedule and plans, requiring patience and flexibility on our part. Carole and I don't really think we have "typical" days--even though we do have some regular activities, which usually come off as planned. While this keeps us from getting bored, and makes the time go by very fast, we yearn, on occasion, for a tad more stability.
For example, this past Saturday, at the last moment, I got a call from President Chinyumba, the District President, advising us that the Brazilian Embassy in Lilongwe had yet to issue a visa allowing Maxwell Mbera of our branch to attend the Brazilian MTC, to learn Portuguese, before returning to Africa to serve his mission in neighboring Mozambique.
[This is the photo we took of Maxwell for our branch photo directory. Maxwell has a twin brother, Benson, who claims to be an hour older.]
[This is the photo we took of Maxwell for our branch photo directory. Maxwell has a twin brother, Benson, who claims to be an hour older.]
That delay threw a wrench into everyone's plans. Maxwell was scheduled to catch a flight at 1:30 p.m. on Monday, from Blantyre, the first of two flights, on his way to Brazil. With that schedule in mind, I had already arranged to set Maxwell apart as a new missionary on Monday morning, before taking him to the airport. President Chinyumba thought there was an outside chance that the Embassy would issue the visa early on Monday morning, and wondered how we might re-jigger flights and schedules so that Maxwell could still get to the Brazilian MTC in time to join the incoming class of new missionaries.
The belated news unleased a flurry of fanatic, last-minute calls: President Chinyumba to his contact at the Brazilian embassy to get a better read on when the visa would really be ready for release; several calls to Sister Erickson, the Mission President's wife, first to see if the flights could be changed, so Maxwell could fly out of Lilongwe rather than Blantyre, and later to see what it really meant if we couldn't get Maxwell out until later in the week; and lastly, several status updates to Maxwell.
[Maxwell was one of the three young men who helped with the Chikwawa humanitarian project, here resting at the final stop, just before we started to distribute the food packages to the flood-displaced refugees.]
[Maxwell was one of the three young men who helped with the Chikwawa humanitarian project, here resting at the final stop, just before we started to distribute the food packages to the flood-displaced refugees.]
Three options were considered for getting Maxwell into the mission field.
The first involved having President Chinyumba in Lilongwe first thing on Monday morning, in the hopes of being able to grab the visa right when the Embassy opened its doors at 8:00 a.m., then driving back to Blantyre, fast enough and without being stoped by the police, so that we could still put Maxwell on the 1:30 flight. But in the end, everyone conceded the option was a high risk proposal not worthy of further consideration. It's a 4 hour 30 minutes drive from Lilongwe to Blantyre and how likely was that the Embassy would really be in a position to release the visa during the first hour on Monday.
The second option involved moving Maxwell and not the visa, driving him to Lilongwe so that he would be there first thing on Monday morning. If the first leg of Maxwell's travel could be rescheduled, flying him out of Lilongwe to Johannsburg, rather than from Blantyre to Johannsburg, we could buy a few hours on Monday morning. Carole confirmed there was an South African flight from Lilongwe to Johannsburg, leaving at 1:00, that would get Maxwell there in time to catch the second connecting flight to Brazil. This might have been doable, but for the fact we had no assurance the Brazilian Embassy could even produce the visa Monday morning, and we didn't know if we could book Maxwell on the Lilongwe flight, the Church's travel department being closed over the weekend.
The last option was really not an option at all. It simply entailed asking the Brazilian MTC as to how much leeway we had for getting Maxwell to Brazil. The original news was not encouraging. We were told that if he missed the flight he would have to wait 6 weeks for the next regularly scheduled training session. Sister Erickson however agreed to follow up with the Area Office, first thing on Monday morning, to see if there was a little more wiggle room than originally suggested. Obviously, this has been stressful for Maxwell, and upsetting to his family, many of whom are not Church members. We know everyone here in Malawi, and at the Mission Home in Zambia, is working hard to find a solution to the problem caused by the delay in getting the visa back from the Brazilian Embassy. Similar delays in getting visas issued in a timely fashion for our prospective missionaries from Africa have caused endless headaches for the Church and much stress for the young members anxious to begin their missions.
This rather lengthy story illustrates how problems can quickly crop up, requiring immediate attention, and demanding our best efforts to craft makeshift solutions. Other senior couples have frequently reminded us of the need of keeping positive and staying patient. Many of our plans will not go as planned and we need to accept that with good cheer. It doesn't help to get unduly exercised.
Below is a brief description of those activities that are fairly predictable during the week, but often even these commitments must be skipped due to unexpected developments:
Sunday: Each
Sunday we have four hours of regular Church services, starting at 8:00 in the
morning and ending just after noon. Our
Sunday meetings are an hour longer than most congregations, because the
Zingwangwa Branch has two, not one, sacrament meetings. The reason for the two meetings is that our meetinghouse is not large enough to accommodate all of our members at a single seating. Accordingly, the branch has split its members into two groups—the Soche and Chilobwe sides of the branch. The Soche group has its sacrament meeting at 8:00, while the Chilobwe group has its sacrament at 11:00. Between these meetings, we have Sunday School, Primary, Relief Society and Elders Quorum. Because those are smaller groups, those meetings can be attended simultaneously by members from both sides of the branch. Usually, Carole and I have people to meet for an hour or so after Church, but otherwise the balance of the day is free from fixed commitments. Once a month the branch hold a baptismal service, immediately after the four-hour block, for new members.
[Malawian children are well-behaved and attentive, love singing primary songs, are used to learning by rote, frequently memorizing long passages of scripture. For reasons we have yet to understand, they rarely act up or push the limits in class settings.]
[Two props Carole uses to keep the children's attention riveted in Primary: the first the "reverence zebra," the second, batons for leading music during sharing time. Brother Banda, our resident artist, painted the faces.]
[Sister Nancy is the newest member of our branch, a lovely young lady. She was recently baptized by Elder Mwangi, who is from Nairobi, Kenya. The branch has a portable baptismal font in the backyard of the meetinghouse.]
Monday: Monday (or at least the day until the late
afternoon) is the day set apart for preparation—doing shopping, answering
emails, catching our breath, giving the Sisters rides, taking care of the
laundry, getting haircuts, writing blog entries. It is on
Monday when Carole frets most about not driving, wishing she had more
flexibility to go shopping on her own without dragging me around like an unwanted anchor. Every other Monday evening, we get together with the other senior couples (the Merrills and the Reynolds) for "family home evening." Our little circle will get smaller in a week when the Reynolds return to the States, after two years of dedicated service.
[The Reynolds are standing in front of the Blantyre Chapel (far and away the nicest Church meeting in Malawi), saying goodbye to Elder Osman Njanji (in the suit), who was heading off to the England Birmingham Mission, the first from Malawi to leave Africa on a mission.. To the far left is Christopher Sitolo, who lives in the boys' quarters behind the Reynolds' home, and is a returned missionary, the first counselor in the Blantyre Second Branch, and one of the stalwarts in the Church.]
Tuesday: On Tuesday morning, usually for an hour and
a half, we participate in a district or zone meeting, conducted by the younger
full-time missionaries. The elders and sisters use these meetings to give
instructions, to share experiences and testimonies, and to motivate one
another. We work primarily with existing members, while the younger missionaries devote their efforts to finding new members; but despite this difference in focus, we have learned much in these sessions. It is inspiring seeing the younger missionaries and their energy is infectious.
[Our district is small: Elders Hiltbrand of Orange County, the district leader; his companion, Elder Ngendabanda, of Burundi; Sister Griffus of Minneapolis-St Paul; and Sister Browning of Caldwell, Idaho. They are standing in the small foyer of our building. The thumbs up sign is the idiosyncratic greeting of our two sister missionaries.]
[Elder Sagers, to the left, is one of the new Zone Leaders, replacing Elder Barnards, when he returned to southern Idaho, about four weeks ago. Elder Sagers is from the Provo-Orem area, and recently joined us from the Copper Belt area in Zambia. Elder Mwangi has been serving in Blantyre since we arrived and we have gotten to know him well. He is really as friendly as his smile makes him appear.]
[The Blantyre Zone has close to twenty missionaries. Our last Zone outing, shortly before Christmas, was to Mulanje, Malawi's highest mountain, at about 8,000 feet. Missionaries are constantly coming and going. Two of the missionaries in this photo, Elders Barnard and Johnson, have now returned to the States, and at least five of the others are now serving in other areas within the Mission.]
Wednesday: We have made it a practice to meet with President
Chikapa on Wednesday evening for about an hour to review what is happening in
the Branch. We pick the President up in
Limbe, at 4:30 p.m., after he finishes up at work, and give him a ride home,
where we then spend about an hour reviewing our assignments and pending
matters. A couple of times we have just
stayed in the truck, for our short meetings, but we have found that practice to
be less than satisfying. So we usually
leave the truck parked in front of the Chilobwe Police Station, continuing on
to the Chikapa’s home, another 15 minute walk.
[The Chikapas in their home in Chilobwe, together with Nimrod (age 2) and Time (age 12). Time, Brother Chikapa's nephew, is being raised by his uncle and aunt, because his parents have passed away, taking care of the relatives of deceased parents is a common practice here.]
Saturday: On Saturday morning we head over to the
Zingwangwa Chapel for an hour or so to join with the other full-time
missionaries in our district, the branch missionaries and the branch missionary
leader, for what is called a “mission correlation” meeting. This is when the full-time missionaries report on
weekly activities and have an opportunity to ask for member help in teaching
and fellowshipping those investigating the Church. This meeting is held right after the seminary and institute classes, so we usually get a chance to see many of the members, even though they do not attend the missionary correlation meeting.
But apart
from these commitments, our daily schedule is flexible, each day taking a unique course, differing from the days before or after. So far most of the uncommitted time has been
devoted to visiting members in their homes, Carole’s working with new primary
teachers, setting apart new missionaries, visiting teaching and home teaching, the
unavoidable chores of keeping up a household, skyping with kids, and writing
blog posts.
One of the more time
consuming tasks I have undertaken is preparing what I grandly call the
“Blantyre Office Couple Handbook.” Now
pushing 35 pages in length (single spaced), it memoralizes the lessons learned
from the Reynolds, who have been serving as the Office Couple here for the last
20 months. Sister Reynolds is the
Mission nurse, and Brother Reynolds is, as I have mentioned before, an
incredible resource, keeping the machinery of the local mission effort going--from paying bills, working
with landlords, maintaining the trucks, ordering supplies from the Area Office,
interfacing with vendors, knowing where to go to purchase office supplies and
hardware goods, and knowing what to do if there is a truck accident or a missionary needs
to go to the hospital. On March 23rd, in less than a week from now, the
Reynolds head home, leaving Carole and me to somehow pick up the office couple
functions for Blantyre.
It has been basically a full-time job for Elder Reynolds, his cell
constantly ringing during our visits to their home. Everyone knows, from President Erickson to
the local missionaries, that I will never be able to replace Elder
Reynolds. Not my skill set.
Our only hope is that the office couple
function here does not totally crater in their absence. But somehow we will muddle through; the
full-time missionaries will no doubt be asked to shoulder more hands-on responsibility for their day-to-day affairs than has been the case in the
past. They could always count on Elder
Reynolds to bail them out of virtually any scrape or to work around any
household problem—getting back into locked apartments, towing a truck whose
clutch has gone, hanging mosquito nets over twin beds, fixing a leaky faucet or
spraying WD-40 on a squeaky door. I
can’t think of anyone less suited to tackling these day-to-day hassles than
myself—either in terms of skills or interest.
Carole and I don't want to give up visiting members in their homes or
focusing primarily on member and leader training. So somehow we will need to find a way to balance these two roles--handling the office couple functions for Blantyre, while not losing our commitment to member and leader support. Longer days and more efficiency will likely be part of the solution.
Thursday, March 12, 2015
Mystery Photo--George's Post
For years Travel and Leisure
published “mystery” pictures, inviting magazine subscribers and well-seasoned
travelers to identify the location of the photos. I always liked looking at the shots, even if I didn't have a clue where they were taken. Invariably they represented some exotic place in the world, which we had yet to visit. When I took this picture the other day, I
thought it would be fun to ask if anyone could identify, not the location of
the shot, but its subject.
First the clues. This photo was taken when we took Maxwell
Mbera, a young man in the Zingwangwa Branch, to Blantyre’s office of Malawi’s Department
of Immigration. The photo was taken of a
canopied area in a small parking area about 50 yards from the office. If you
look carefully, you will spot on the ground scraps of sliced paper and a car
battery that is being used to generate juice to power a printer. The
product we purchased had a “red” background, not quite what one would expect of
a similar product in the United States, but at a purchase price of 800 kwacha
or $1.80 it was definitely a bargain. The cottage
industry that had grown up around the Department of Immigration was just what
we were looking for. It shows how
enterprising Malawians can be, when given an opportunity. How many copies we needed may be debatable,
but in any event, we got four.
By now most of you, certainly all
of my grandchildren (over the age of five), will have guessed the right
answer. The little shop generated passport size photos
for those applying for passports and visas.
Monday, March 9, 2015
The Plan for Helping Our Branch Members--George's Post
The worst
seasonal rains of this wet season, which caused most of the property damage and
loss of life, are now six weeks behind us.
The rains have continued, but we have been spared the high winds and nasty
torrential rains of January that did most of the damage. The final tally among the Zingwangwa Branch
members was two homes destroyed and four others with one or more walls down,
leaving the homes dangerous or uninhabitable.
This inventory does not include damage to outbuildings or leaky roofs
or cracks in walls, all nasty problems, but nothing like the loss of a wall or
roof. Had more minor problems been included,
the list of affected families would be much longer. Members in the three other congregations in
Blantyre (Blantyre First, Blantyre Second, and Ndirande Branches) sustained
similar levels of damage. Recently we
were told that roughly 20 member owned homes in the Blantyre District were
totally or partially destroyed.
For weeks,
the local Church leaders have worried about how best to help these
families. Not surprisingly, even though
the homes are modest structures, the affected Church members do not have the savings
at hand to purchase the bricks, cement, sand, support beams, and metal roofing
materials, and to hire the labor, needed to restore their homes. In most cases, the families have been able
to move into temporary housing, often staying in crowded quarters with other
family members. Malawians are amazing
generous, always willing to open their homes, frequently for months on end, to
help out others in the family, even though distantly related. They do this without fanfare; it is simply
what family does. Few, if any, have
private insurance and local government assistance is non-existent. Foreign aid, and there are many NGOs working
in Malawi, is primarily directed at the high density disaster areas, where the
needs are the most visible. And while
extended family can and does help with shelter and food, they are usually as
poor as those displaced and can’t loan or gift the money necessary to fund major
restoration projects.
By
Westerner standards, the requisite financial outlay to repair or restore one of
these homes is inconsequential in amount.
The bricks, sand and cement needed to build a wall will not cost more
than 100,000 kwacha or roughly $200. Two
or three men or women, working one or two eight hour days, can supply all the
labor needed. Labor costs are cheap, so
it is not expensive to hire the labor to replace a wall. Roof materials (the wood beams, nails, and
corrugated metal strips) are more costly, but all of the materials to build one
of these small brick homes, from scratch, could be acquired for less than
500,000 kwacha or $1,000. Remember most
of these homes do not have electricity, indoor plumbing or water—adding those
amenities would substantially increase the construction costs. Usually, the main home is serviced by at
least two outbuildings—one an outdoor toilet, the other a small shed for
cooking and to ensure privacy for sponge baths.
We estimate the construction materials for the five affected home in the
Zingwangwa Branch would not exceed 1,250,000 kwacha or $2,500, a manageable
number in the United States, but an unreachable sum for our poor members.
An easy
solution will come to mind for most of you.
We could fund the total costs out of our reserves or, if we wanted to
spread the expense, could fund it with our own monies together with modest
contributions from family and friends.
It would be easy to raise the money, knowing the generosity of friends
back home.
But the
easy solution ends up being a bad one for the members, even if it is simple for
us, represents a quick fix, and may make us feel good. The problem is that undermines the teaching of
important principles that many Africans, including Church members, have yet to
learn fully. The Church is working hard
to teach the African members the importance of self-reliance—the skill of
standing on their own--so that they are not dependent upon gifts or loans from
senior missionaries, aid from NGOs, handouts from Westerners. Instead, they are to look to their own
resources, working with what they have at hand, to make ends meet. That way they can stand on their own, in the
months and years to come, without external aid or crutches. By solving their own problems, through
initiative, hard work and resourcefulness, they will develop the skills and
aptitude requisite to becoming and staying independent. And as they do so, they will acquire feelings
of independence, develop a pride in hard work and obtain a sense of
self-worth.
The Church
recognizes self-reliance is a skill that must be taught and is in the process
of implementing a major program throughout all of Africa, available to Church
members and others as well, teaching the basic skills people need to master to
stand on their own—budgeting, distinguishing between basic needs and wants,
learning to save a portion of one’s income (however modest it may be), learning
to “invest” in oneself through education and training. The program also includes materials to help
participants continue their education, get a job or start a new business. Learning these skills is the ultimate solution
to Africa’s poverty. While the task may
seem daunting, there are enough local resources in Blantyre, if harnessed and
properly put to use, to improve dramatically the quality of life here. Hard work, initiative, budgeting, investment,
and shrewdness are the qualities that must be harnessed. The weather in Blantyre is close to being
perfect—almost everything grows here—with diligence and sweat, it could be transformed
into the Garden of Eden
Still
floods, earthquakes, devastating rains, and other natural disasters call for
short-term solutions, to address the critical, and immediate, needs of shelter,
food and water. The challenge the Church
faces is to care for the poor and needy in their distress, without undermining
the core principles of self-reliance that the Church is so urgently trying to
teach. How is it possible to help out
without making Africans aid dependent, undercutting the urge to work hard (why
work if it will be given to you), or destroying the personal discipline one
needs to invest and save for the future.
Why should an Africa work or invest or save, if Westerners (whether the Church
or others) always are around to bail them out when they have unexpected
crises.
There is an
undeniable irony here that is hard to ignore: when aid is given to those who are
already self-reliant and hardworking and self-disciplined, one does not worry
about the effect of giving the aid upon those receiving the help. The act of charity is precisely that--an act
of charity—a blessing to the recipient at the same time it is a reward to the
one showing compassion. No one thinks
that the recipient of the aid, after it is received, will be any less hard
working, independent, self-motivated, or prudent. The aid is nothing more than a bridge to span
what is seen as an unexpected, but short-term, gulf in one’s journey through
life. On the other hand, when aid is given to those
already aid-dependent, or lacking discipline, or prone to laziness, the receipt
of aid may have a corrosive effect upon the ones being helped, causing them to
be more dependent, and less able to fend for themselves. It is perverse that it is easier to help
those who need less help, and more challenging to help those who need help the
most.
Our local Church
leaders struggled to find the correct balance: teaching correct principles of
personal responsibility, while at the same time demonstrating compassion and
charity. After considerable thought and
prayer, the district presidency, and the four branch presidents, endorsed a
plan, to be implemented on a district wide basis, incorporating these key
elements.
First, Church
leaders had to come up with guidelines defining which members the Church would
assist. After discussion, there was
quick consensus. The Church should focus
on dwelling houses—not outbuildings--and should limit their assistance to those
members who owned their own homes, not those who were renting. The landlords of
the renters should be responsible for restoring rental homes and, if they
couldn’t or won’t, the members should move out of their current homes, even
then livable, into new rental homes. The
scope of the restoration was also defined.
The project should be confined to restoring, as nearly as possible, the
existing structure, using the current footprint to set the boundaries. The intent was not to use the Church’s funds
to expand or improve the homes. Everyone
agreed, however, to one qualification to this rule. The Church would use “fired bricks” for the
new construction, even if the home had previously been constructed using
“unfired bricks.”
The second
element of the plan dealt with the level of sacrifice that members
participating in the program would be asked to make. The sacrifice required was finally defined in
two ways: one financial, and other in terms of donated labor. With respect to money, each family should be
asked to contribute some money toward the rebuilding of their homes, however
modest that contribution might be. It
was not considered wise to establish a fixed percentage. Some of the affected members were extremely
poor and would be hard pressed to come up with any money for the project. In other cases, they were better off, and
could probably come up with 5% to 20% of the estimated material costs. So it was decided that the branch president
would first sit down with each family separately to review their finances and
to assess whether extended family members were in a position to help. Based on that assessment, the branch
president would determine the amount of money the family needed to raise before
getting financial support from the Church.
The family’s donation would need to be in hand, before the construction
began.
The branch
presidents thought teams of 6 to 8 men and/or women would be ideal for doing
the labor. Each team would need at least
one member who had experience in building homes of this type—laying the
foundation, building up the initial layers of bricks, getting the right mixture
of sand to cement, fixing the right plumb line.
Given that most homes are homemade, this requirement is easy to
satisfy. With teams of this size, single walls could be reconstructed with a day or two of labor,
and an entire house within a week, once all building materials were on
site. While families may not have money,
they certainly can work. The general
rule was that each assisted family should work, not only on the construction of
their own house, but also on at least three to four other homes. The branch presidents would also ask other
members to help provide labor, following the model of the early Mormon
pioneers, when they can together as whole communities to help one another in
building their barns and homes. The leaders thought this communal effort would
do much to knit the branch together.
As the plan
was being devised, the leaders worried about whether other members would become
envious of those being helped or would get unrealistic, and unhealthy,
expectations about the level of assistance they might receive in the
future. Members should stand on their
own and should look to their own resources, and those of their own extended
family, before asking the Church for help.
If they act prudently, and invest wisely, they will be blessed and
should, absent extraordinary events, be positioned to weather the adversities
they face. Even in this case, it should
be remembered that the families affected were in part at blame for their own
problems. Most had built their homes
without proper foundations, using unfired bricks and mortar with too much sand
to concrete. Had they been more patient
in the first place, their homes could have withstood the problems. Moreover, others, even with homes similarly
constructed, were able to screen their walls with large sheets of plastic on
the days of the worst weather and hence keep their walls standing upright,
despite the driving rain.
The members
whose homes survived the bad weather should not resent the help to be given to
the less fortunate. Their blessing was
that they were preserved. But the
members are still new in the Church, and envy, jealousy, pettiness, back biting
can still creep in. And, as mentioned before, the greatest risk was that of undermining the
members' understanding of the principle that they are responsible for
themselves and their own families and should not look to others for help. After much discussion, it was decided to
dedicate this past Fast Sunday to praying for and remembering the needy, asking
all members to be even more generous than normal in contributing their fast
offerings. President Chikapa spent time, both the Sunday before the fast, and the Sunday of the fast, explaining the role of fast offerings in the Church. He encouraged everyone to be more generous than usual when contributing fast offering, and to pray for the relief and comfort of those whose homes had been destroyed or substantially damaged. I thought he did a marvelous job and, as best I can tell, the Branch members have rallied around those most in need of help.
Helping Hands--Malungas, Makawas and Magomba--George's Post
Three other families in the Zingwangwa
Branch have borne the brunt of the recent storms in Blantyre.
Malungas:
The Malungas, who live on Soche Mountain, close
to the Bandas and Phiris, had their home's front wall collapse, forcing them to vacate their residence in the midst of an awful storm. They have now moved to a small one-room building,
on the same site, while they try to piece together a plan for restoring their home.
Here is a photo of Sister Malunga and one of her three daughters. Their home is located on a rocky knoll, surrounded by large boulders, similar to the ones shown in this picture.
Sister Malunga is painfully shy and
seems quite uncomfortable with us; like many of the Branch's sisters, she
struggles with English, making it difficult to communicate. She was serving as the primary president when
we arrived, so Carole was anxious to work with her, President Chikapa having
singled out primary as one of the areas where we could most help. But Sister Malunga has only been to Church a
couple of times during our four months in Blantyre, leaving it to Carole and
Sister Thoko to run primary on their own. And Carole, despite
her best efforts, hasn’t been able to train Sister Malunga.
Sister Malunga, with Janet (19) (her oldest daughter) and Olivia (10)
on the family property. Not pictured are Chimwemwe (15) and George (12)
Sister Malunga in front of her home
before the storm.
The rains caved in the front wall, forcing
the Malungas to relocate to a nearby one-room shed.
Several weeks after the rains, when
I was going to visit with the Bandas, I met Brother Malunga for the first time. He stopped me on the uphill trail, inviting me to accompany him to his makeshift home. On what was another day of lousey rainy weather,
the entire family was found huddled in a one-room shed, all of their earthly goods
piled high in the room, leaving the family with less than half the floor space for
sleeping, eating, and passing time.
It was clear Brother Malunga wanted
to share with me his story. He briefly reviewed
his history in the Church, saying he was one of the earliest members in Soche,
and the one responsible for introducing the Bandas, Phiris, and others to the gospel.
He felt he had legitimate grievances against
the Church, because years ago he had not been awarded a construction contract to do some work
on the chapel, even though he had taken the time to put together an estimate for
the work. The work has been awarded to others, something he found most unfair. Brother Malunga explained he was then working in the Mulanje District,
some 40 miles east of Blantyre, overseeing the cultivation of local maize crops,
and hence not around to help his wife with the day-to-day challenges of making ends
meet and taking care of the kids. Several years ago, the Church took disciplinary
action against Brother Malunga, owing to the defalcation of funds, so there is much
more to the story than Brother Malunga let on. But whatever
the total story, and wherever the ultimate blame might lie, the current living circumstances of the family are undeniably bleak.
Makawas:
Next to the Nthendas, the Makawa's home sustained the greatest damage.
They have lost two main exterior walls, leaving four of their six rooms exposed to the elements. This battery of photos gives a sense for the scale of the destruction:
Our first visit to the Makawas, before
the storms, left the impression that their home, though high on Mount Soche, was
one of the nicer ones we had visited: it had six rooms (rendering it larger than
most), a nice concrete floor (not compacted dirt), well fitted doors and windows, clean, well swept floors, and spectacular views over Blantyre. The home is located high, directly above Chilobwe
Market, a 20 mile hike up the hill. The storms however made it painfully evident that the builder had cut corners, not setting
the home upon a solid foundation of crushed rock and concrete. The rains basically washed away the foundation
on the downside of the hill, leading to the collapse of the front wall, and endangering
the entire structure.
The collapse of their home has left the MaKawas numb, wondering how they are going to manage. Brother MaKawa had, until recently, some kind of installation or service contract with ESCOM, the local utility, but that contract was not renewed upon its expiration, leaving the family without a steady source of income. He is trying hard to find a new job, but has yet to find something. We know he is pounding the pavement in an effort to find employment, having met him by chance several times walking home from Limbe and Soche after a day of job hunting. He is obviously motivated to get a job to provide for the family. The Makawas have a four-year old daughter, Gertrude, who can't stay still in primary or at Church, a characteristic one notices more here because most children are so quiet, strait laced, and well behaved.
Still new to the Church, baptized within
the past year, the Makawas are anxious to learn more about the restored gospel.
The full-time missionaries assigned to Chilobwe (Elders Hiltbrand and Ngendabanda)
have been reviewing with them the five basic lessons from “Preach My Gospel.” From our part, Carole and I have recently met with
them, reading a couple of chapters from First Nephi (the first book) of the Book
of Mormon, both to get them started reading on their own, and to help them understand
better the basic doctrines of the Church. We have found many in Malawi to get a spiritual
testimony of the restoration, and the truthfulness of the Church, quickly after
being introduced to the most basic Church doctrines. Over time, as they attend Church meetings, and
institute or seminary classes, their knowledge of Church doctrines and practices
is broadened.
To some this may seem strange or possibly
even suspect. How is it possible for them
to get a testimony when they know so little? But Malawians are not Westerners—they are not jaded
or cynical or closed to spiritual matters. They are not stiff necked. Quite to the contrary,
they are extremely responsive to the spirit and have great faith in God and accept Christ as the savior and redeemer. When introduced to basic Church doctrines, they
find them intuitively true, and faith comes easy to them. Nor are they impatient--they do not expect to learn everything at once. Starting with the basics, and exercising faith, as they slowly move beyond that, is an acceptable course of action.
Sister Makawa is the secretary in
the Relief Society, a comfortable position for her, since she is a close friend
of Sister Banda. She is less at ease at
Church, perhaps because she finds English a struggle. Her household includes Andrew, Brother
Makawa’s younger brother (about 16). For
years, one of Brother Makawa’s younger siblings, and then another, have rotated through
his home, staying for varying periods as they finished up secondary school.
Almost every family in the Branch is a mixed family unit, and includes one or more
brothers, sisters, cousins, aunts or uncles, or aged parents, as is typical in Malawi due to the
high mortality rates among adults and absence of a social safety net.
Or perhaps better said, taking care of one’s own family, which is a firmly-entrenched
social tradition, is the Malawian safety net.
Someone has to take care of children who have lost their parents and the
elderly. Malawians are exceptionally welcoming
and gracious in this regard.
Magombo:
It is hard to imagine someone more selfless or more dedicated to the Church than Brother Magombo. At 77, he is, by far, the oldest member of the Zingwangwa Branch. Yet his energy belies his age. He lives miles from the chapel, on the outskirts of Chilobwe, and takes care of a young grandson. His wife lives in some village, and we have never seen her. Long separations are commonly accepted here as an unavoidable part of life. We were somewhat surprised to learn that Brother Magombo was an ordained pastor for some twenty years. He proudly showed us several certificates confirming completion of various course of bible study when we visited with him in his home several weeks after the bad storms. Brother Mkochi, who served as our guide in finding the Magombo home, praised Brother Magombo's faithfulness, but also wondered openly about how much he really understood about the gospel. While Brother Magombo understands English, his English is virtually unintelligible, so it is hard to get a fix on what he understands or what he doesn't. Yet, without fail, each Sunday he is at Church early, setting up chairs, distributing hymnals. With the loss of one wall, his modest home is now even more cramped.
The day of our visit Brother Magombo had been patiently waiting for us to arrive. We were late because Brother Mkochi had trouble finding the way and we wandered around aimlessly, for some time, before finding the right neighborhood. It was clear that Brother Magombo would have been bitterly disappointed had we not come. These pictures were taken as we were leaving his home, though neither picture shows his place:
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